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Tuesday, 30 January 2018

ANOTHER MELODY FROM BENUE BORN MUSIC ART "EKO" TITLED "HAPPINESS"

He dropped AYÈ few months back and its still making waves till today, he's that Benue guy that loves to tell stories in music lines, EKO, one of the leading vocals in Benue state university drops something bigger and better "HAPPINESS" as he titles it is one song that gives joy.. I bet you can't wait to place it on repeat.
                     
            Download and enjoy:

         
               DOWNLOAD {EKO - HAPPINESS}

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Wednesday, 17 January 2018

SOUTH AFRICAN LADY TRENDS AFTER POSTING THIS HOT PICTURES ON SOCIAL MEDIA








After the photos of a new pleasure doll which will be sold for over N800k went viral, a South African blogger, Nandy Mlomo took to her Twitter page to share her appealing photos to prove they are no match to her on the romance scale.

It would be recalled that some netizens have argued ridicuolously that it might be expensive to purchase a pleasure doll at the initial stage but at the long run, it's cheaper and more peaceful to have.
However, she received backlash from Twitter users, as they berated her for comparing herself to a pleasure doll.
See their reactions below;
Molemi wrote; “Dolls dont give us Ls..she ignored my tweet”
Sir Paul Wrote: “Well we wouldn’t be buying expensive hair every month”
Uncle Ojo Wrote: “No thanks, that body and wig will still need some maintenance, and will not have s*x if it’s needs are not met. With Doll baby, there won’t be all that!”
Cashflow wrote; “ can pay to get same version of you as a s*x doll! i guess the brazilian hair we won’t be buying anymore is really getting to ya’all!”
Meanwhile, Nandy Momo's pictures have made a bold statement against the pleasure dolls being circulated on social media.
See more photos of Nandy:
 

NIGERIAN SINGER WIZKID SHOWS OFF WEED AS HIS BREAKFAST IN NEW PHOTO


 

 
Nigerian superstar, Ayo Balogun popularly known as Wizkid seems not to enjoy simple breakfast as many do, and he has taken to Instagram to show it off.
Meanwhile, fans of the Starboy label boss had advised him to tone down his penchant for smoking cannabis, also known as marijuana.
One fan recently asked him on social media, “must you smoke all the time” while another enjoined him to reduce his intake of “hard drugs” because it’s starting to affect his appearance.
 
 
Since he burst into limelight over six years ago, Wizkid has at different times, publicly displayed his love for smoking 'pot'. Hence, it is common knowledge among his fans that he occasionally indulges in smoking marijuana.
 
AprokoByMayor - EntertainmentNews

Thursday, 28 September 2017

HOT MUSIC VIBES FROM NAIJA ARTISTE "EKO" TITLED "LIFE" - {DOWNLOAD}

Real cool vibes just drop from one of the most talented Naija artiste "EKO" 


Ejembi Emmanuel Eko popularly known as "EKO" was born on 14th June 1995 in Otukpo Benue State, Nigeria.

He started music officially some few year back and has been making waves in the industry, he is the talk of town as he drops latest single which he titled "LIFE"

Some of his skills are song writing, drawing, playing the guitar and harmonics. He does Hip-Hop, Afro pop, Highlife, and raggae.


He is known for some of his hit tracks such as; Oh Girl,  Apologize, H.A.N.D.S and numerous collaborations.



Download "LIFE" by Eko below:
Song Title - Life
Length - 3.59
Size - 6 MB

Tuesday, 19 September 2017

"I REMEMBER SELLING BEER AT SHERATON HOTEL IKEJA" BLOGGER LINDA IKEJI WRITES AS SHE MARKS 37TH BIRTHDAY

Blogger Linda Ikeji
Self acclaimed richest and most popular blogger in Africa, Linda Ifeoma Ikeji is a year older today, 19th September, and has taken to her Instagram page to write a touching message to inspire and motivate her millions of fans.

Below is what the entrepreneur and former model wrote on social media to celebrate her 37th birthday;

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"Birthday girl!. Gosh, I love how far I've come and I'm so excited for the future. I can't wait for you guys to see some of what we're planning for TV in Nigeria and the mega Selfmade programme we are planning soon.
"I remember selling/promoting Corona beer at Sheraton hotel, Ikeja as a 19 year old girl. Standing from 2pm to 10pm everyday for a month, trying to convince people to buy the beer cos that was how I got a commission. 1k per day...lol.
"It was so hard back in the day. I hustled so hard. Many didn't see it but The One who mattered the most saw me and when He was ready to bless me, He took my breath away.
"God has been awesome. I'm not even half way through my journey yet. By the time I'm done, the world will know that I Was Here. Thanks guys for all the birthday wishes. Kisses..."

SHOCKER: MAID CAUGHT RED-HANDED FORCING 5-YEAR OLD BOY TO FONDLE HER PRIVATE PART

File photo: Used for illustration 
A Zimbabwean maid who was employed by a Hwange family has appeared in court yesterday on allegations of forcing her employer’s five-year-old daughter to caress her privates for s*xual pleasure.

According to Newsday, this was heard when Petronela Mathabisa Ncube (20) of DRC, Empumalanga, appeared before Hwange magistrate, Rosemary Dube, charged with indecent assault.

Prosecutor Portia Munsaka told the court that sometime between June and August this year, Ncube would invite the minor to her bedroom and order her to undress her and to tickle her genitals until she was s*xually satisfied.

Ncube allegedly threatened to assault the girl if she did not comply or reported the matter to her parents.

The matter came to light when the minor’s mother allegedly caught them in the act, and filed a police report.

Ncube has denied the charge and was remanded in custody to today for trial.

Saturday, 16 September 2017

"I ONCE SLEPT ON THE STREETS OF GHANA" - PATORANKING

Patoranking 
Even as he has attained fame and become a celeb, not many people would know that dancehall singer, Patoranking, had been in the music business for over a decade. Interestingly, the young man has seen the other side of life in his quest to climb the stardom ladder.

While speaking on a programme on Cool FM, Lagos, the singer revealed that at a point in his life, he travelled to Ghana in search of greener pastures only to end up sleeping on the streets.

“Nigerians are very powerful people and if they like your song, you are likely to be a success in Africa. There was a point in my life that I travelled to Ghana in search of greener pastures but I ended up trekking and sleeping on the streets. I decided to come back to Nigeria. Then I released ‘Alubarika’ and ‘Girlie O.’ Both songs were a hit and in no time, I was invited to perform in Ghana, Kumasi Stadium to be precise. When they came to pick me, I counted the number of cars and it was 13. I was very surprised but was grateful to God,” he said.

Patoranking used the opportunity to disagree with his colleague, Mr. Eazi, who had once said that Ghanian music was heavily influencing Nigerian sounds as well as claiming that most Nigerian singers were copying his style as he was the one that popularised the fusion of Ghanaian and Nigerian sounds.

 “We have been having this cultural exchange with Ghana way back since the time Tuface sang ‘My love’ which featured VIP from Ghana. Tic Tac and Tony Tetuila sang ‘Fefe ne efe.’ The musical cultural exchange between Nigeria and Ghana has been going on even before I finished secondary school. It is false for Mr. Eazi to say he started that style of music because he did not help me sing my hit song, ‘My Woman.’ I did it myself and the song is a global hit song. It is the biggest afrobeat song in the Caribbean. I do not agree with his statement. It is wrong.”

Thursday, 14 September 2017

SLAY MAMA TORMENTS SOCIAL MEDIA WITH HER HUMONGUOUS BACKSIDE

If you believe you have seen all the massive bums on Instagram without checking out the page of Jaye Love, then you haven't started.

Jaye Love is a beautiful lady with African roots with an explosive bum which has come under intense questioning by doubting followers. She has reiterated that her backside is real and was achieved through regular exercises which keeps her in shape.

She is a big time traveller who has traveled across the United States of America and Ghana. She has a passion for local fabrics too. Jaye is not your average slay queen as she is highly educated.

Thousands of people are currently following her on Instagram and they work tirelessly to get her attention with nice comments.

See more images of Jaye below:
 


Friday, 8 September 2017

POLICE ARRESTS HUSBAND OF CHEATING GHANIAN COMEDIENNE FOR LEAKING HER S*X VIDEO

Lawrence Abrokwah, husband of Ghanaian Comedienne and TV Personality, Afia Schwarzenegger has been arrested and is set to appear before a domestic violence court today in Ghana.
We reported how he caught his wife in bed with another man with the video of the event going viral.
Lawrence Abrokwah will be facing charges for recording and circulating the video of alleged infidelity involving the Comedienne.
He is expected to appear in Court today, Friday. According to a Police source, the suspect was arrested, detained and later granted bail.
A docket has been prepared and the police are ready to prosecute, the source said.
Few days ago, a video circulating on social media platforms showed an Afia Schwarzenegger crying with just a towel barely covering her body. Her husband had barged in on her having sex with another man in a room and recorded the event.
Lawrence Abrokwah and Afia Schwarzenegger got married in October 22, 2016, inside a church at Florida Lake in Johannesburg, South Africa. It is reported that money borrowed for the wedding ceremony has not been paid by the husband.

Wednesday, 6 September 2017

5 CLEAR SIGNS THAT YOUR GIRL IS ABOUT TO DUMP YOU FOR ANOTHER GUY

There are always warning signs before a relationship ends but most people tend to ignore those signs.
Before your partner breaks up with you they unconsciously send out warning signs because once they know the end of the relationship is near their actions are always affected and it’s good you know so they don’t take you unawares and dump you.
Here are clear signs your woman is about to dump you for another man.
1. She is hanging out with this new guy a lot
“Most times, women love to secure a new relationship before they leave and if she is about to dump you, she might probably be doing that at the moment, we all have friends from the opposite s3x and there is actually nothing wrong with that but when she suddenly starts hanging out with this particular guy almost every time she is free, chances are she’s losing interest in you and hoping to start a new relationship with this new guy and if you call or text her when she is with him and she ignores you, that could just be a huge sign”.
2. She takes forever to reply
“If she is tired of the relationship and wants out, it becomes difficult for her to pick your calls or reply messages, we are not saying she should always reply on time or pick your calls always as she might be too busy to reply sometimes but when it becomes a habit, then it’s obvious she wants out, she would be happy to pick your calls or reply your messages if she wants to be with you”.
3. She seems lost when she is with you
“If she wants out, it becomes so difficult for her to concentrate on you when you are with her, it’s like her mind is always somewhere when she is with you; when a woman wants to be with a man, he becomes her focus of attention; everything he does seems interesting to her and if she wants out, you become too boring for her”.
4. Everything becomes an issue
“When a woman wants out, everything you do annoys her and you observe it becomes so easy for her to pick up fights; there isn’t any perfect relationship and people should also understand misunderstandings are normal in every healthy relationship but there are misunderstandings in relationships that signal the end, when the misunderstandings become frequent and the reason for the misunderstanding isn’t enough for her to act that way, she might just be looking for a way to get out of the relationship and she might be looking for a way to make you get pissed off so you end it first and take the blame for the collapse of the relationship”.
5. Your friends and family stop appealing to her
“In the beginning, she always wanted to hang out with your family members and your friends too, the truth is when a woman sees a future with a man, she knows securing a place in the heart of his friends and family is important but if she suddenly stops you from seeing her parents and other important people in her life and she also avoids meeting your parents and other important people in your life, the sign is so clear she wants out”.







Tuesday, 5 September 2017

DAVIDO VS. HUSHPUPPI: WHO ROCKED THE GUCCI SHIRRT BETTER?

Who rocked this Gucci shirt better?
Davido or Hushpuppi?


Monday, 4 September 2017

THE UNTOLD STORY OF AN IDOMA BOY WHO TURNED TO A WOMAN OVERNIGHT

When God created the first humans, they were of two kinds; male and female. The world finds it incomprehensible and difficult to accept or recognise the Third Kind, those born with the wrong body chemistry.

Generically called transgender, they are an endangered species, constantly subjected to xenophobic reaction which atimes include discrimination and imprisonment.

One of such unfortunate human beings that has felt the wrath of the world is Iris Sahhara Henson, 29-year-old singer and supermodel who was pretty enough to contest for the 2011 Miss International Queen Pageant in Pattaya, Thailand and ended first runner up.

Born Clifford Oche to the family of Mrs. And Mrs. Agbo Ella in the dusty Benue town of Otukpo, he was raised in the capital city of Abuja. After two failed suicide attempts he escaped to London ten years ago where he has since been living as a woman.

Sahhara Henson, one of the first known Nigerian transgenders, is yet to find the absolute freedom she craves. Recently, Facebook threatened to shut down her account because of the offensive pictures she was posting.

Forced to vent her frustration, she blamed religion for a world that has gone awry. In one of her diatribes, she claimed the world has been screwed by religion and she cannot wait to die.

 In a rare show of concern, she condemned the atrocities committed around the world in the name of religion, with explicit reference to the 200 Chibok girls abducted by the Boko Haram insurgents in Northeast Nigeria.

Nonetheless, Sahhara continues to face public condemnation. The most scathing attack happened last year, when she inadvertently stirred the hornet’s nest by speaking about how happier she is now that her dream of becoming a woman was achieved.



Blast from the pastTestimonies have shown that even from childhood, Oche used to behave like a girl. In fact, those in the know claimed that Oche had never appreciated the fact that God created him a man. Students of GSS, Bwari Abuja hinted us that back in their school days, precisely 1998, Oche enjoyed the company of female than his male counterparts.

According to a classmate, Oche was the Press Club President and used to be an active member of the Fellowship of Christian Students, FCS.

“He normally behaved like a a female, he hanged around ladies all times and also had this friends that behaved like him in the same hostel in Abaji House to be precise. The name of the friend is called Monsuru, though he’s now married in Abuja,” the school mate hinted us.

Even students of Benue State university, his alma mater have their own testimony on Oche’s strange behaviours back in the institution as a student of Mass Communication in 2007.

 In a recent online interaction, Clifford Oche, now Miss Sahhara who was recently crowned Miss Transgender  tells the story of her struggle against the world. While making a strong case for her existence, she also throws a strong taunt and tantrum against her detractors.

The point she is making: she has a life to live. Here is her account straight from the horse’s mouth.
Journey to self-discovery.

Well I am a self made woman, well educated, talented and  down to earth.  I am originally from Nigeria, moved to the UK slightly over 10 years ago to live my life freely and openly as the person I truly am.

I am professionally trained Digital Media specialist, with interest in production, editing, management and research. I hope to further my education in PhD Gender and sexuality  studies in the nearer future.

At the moment, I am modeling, advocating for equal rights in Africa, producing songs and performing at a fabulous resident in London westend.

“I am standing in front of the mirror looking at my reflection. Tears of joy trickle down my rouged cheek before going on stage. I am in tears because I just can’t believe how realistic my dreams have become. I am a woman! Living my life freely. Accepted and respected for my achievements as a model and a performer.

My fellow transgendered sisters and brothers paved this way for me. They fought for acceptance, understanding and respect.

Some died while fighting for what they believed in and others fell before their time due to hate, rejection and society’s unfairness. Every single story gave me strength to fight on and never to give up.



I wish I could tell the younger me who tried to commit suicide twice that life gets better and dreams come true. I did not imagine life could be this amazing many years ago after being released from a horrid Nigerian prison for being different.

Then all I could think was I could die in this prison and no one will know or care.

Being imprisoned felt justifiable, considering I was being punished for being ‘gay’ – something they assumed due to my feminine features and mannerisms. I wasn’t gay, I am a woman born differently due to natural defects.

What I felt did not match my outward appearance, Being assigned male at birth doesn’t make me a man or a woman, nobody was born a man or a women, you develop into your preferred gender as you grow up. For me that gender was female. I was born male but my brain, gestures, features and carriage functioned as female.

Growing up and not knowing what was happening to my body made me confused and lost. I couldn’t discuss it with my family because my femininity was frowned on due to religion and I could not talk to my friends because they would not understand what I was going through. I found solace in music and dreams.

I dreamt of being free to be myself, free of insults, free of judgment and free from harassments. That freedom came when I moved to the United Kingdom, finding girls like me gave me hope of not being alone in my journey of self-discovery.

I found out what I went through growing up in Nigeria was quite common with transgendered people. Having freedom, acceptance and knowledge are the key most important elements to a successful transition. Knowing I am not alone in my struggles helped me to reevaluate my views on life and how I should go about my transition wisely.

I researched my transition and reconciled the conflicting emotions involved in the process of accepting myself as the woman I am.

It is a lonely world during transition, as your body changes so do your emotions, which leads the mind into the darkest path in life. If the chemicals are not professionally controlled, you can feel suicidal due to rejection from loved ones and society.

In life, perfection doesn’t exist, but for me having the freedom to be my true self feels almost perfect. As a black transgendered woman I am faced with many daily challenges such as transphobia, a complicated love life, poor career prospects and racism. But when I remember my life history, these challenges become water under the bridge.

That is why I will always remember those who built this foundation for freedom and knowledge. Also those who never got the chance to enjoy the acceptance we have achieved so far.

Transgender Day of Remembrance, November 20, is particularly important to me because I have lost close friends to suicide and have seen many more wishing to commit suicide as a final fix to their gender dilemma and rejection by society.

The media is silent on the subject of transphobia and the effects it has on young transgendered people of today, because they don’t see transgendered people as ‘normal’ members of our community. Remembering my fallen friends helps me to keep their memories alive. It also encourages me to carry on the fight to be respected, understood and accepted for whom I am.

I dream of a world where we are given some sort of understanding and tolerance to live peacefully as able, intelligent fellow human beings who make positive contributions to society. Transgendered people are human too. We are your brothers, your sisters, your children, your friends and your lovers. Stop the hate.

My mum did an amazing job all by herself! Even though she feels she failed with me. She raised me a good person with good education and good morals! She has done incredibly well in my books. She is my idol - minus the religious madness of cause.

Some words for my haters

I’m flirting with the idea of competing in more beauty pageants next year. I find them quite fun. Which Country should I represent? UK or Nigeria?

I was born a plain canvas like any human. Hence I like playing with makeup, sexy clothing, high heels shoes, & different colours of hair to create an interesting looking character.

Beauty they say, is in the eyes of the beholder, so you don’t have to like my looks. I honestly don’t care about your hatred for my ‘plastic look’. I am not doing it for your approval, I do it for myself!, because it feels and looks good. So keep your nasty hateful opinions to your boring self!

Just because you can’t achieve the same result as myself doesn’t make your BASIC FAT A** more of a woman than me! Jealous Nigerian b*****s sending me stupid hateful messages after reading a popular blogger’s sentence comparing me to their ugly fat a****!

Why she may never return home
Though safe in a more liberal society where his (or her) kinds are tolerated, Sahhara may well bid goodbye to his native country where sentiments against transgender are highly inflammable.

Her ties to her roots have been uprooted as her immediate kith and kin, the Idomas, including the parents have been rather visceral and virulent. She has been deemed a sacrilege for putting their proud ethnicity on shameful spotlight.

Several attempts to speak with ‘her’ father, Pa Agbo failed. A family member told our reporters that the father had since forgotten everything about him. “The father does not want to hear anything about Oche again. He’s a forgotten issue,” the close insider squealed.

A visit to his family house located on Upu Street, Otukpo could not yield any positive result as the father was not be reached for comment. From the look of things, his kinsmen are no longer at ease with him.

Kinsmen are denouncing him. The common man is asking for his head. Idomas are taking it personal with Oche. Shame! Shame, they roar.

When it finally dawned on the Idoma community that Oche is a son of the land, nay, a native of Otukpo Nobi, protests sparked like wild fire. From the street to the Internet, particularly on blogs, Facebook and Twitter, vitriolic tweets and venomous Facebook post are being thrown at Miss Sahhara, so strong-worded that, as a matter of fact, she seems to be the most hated indigene of the moment.

From outright curse (“It’s unfortunate that an Idoma person is part of the evil reign in the world) to scalding criticism  (“He should not only change his gender but his nationality.

 He is not fit to live with human beings but among animals like pigs, dogs and goats) to blunt denial ( He is not from Idoma land)  - the Idomas are having a field day venting their spleen.

However, Oche seems unperturbed by all these criticisms. In fact, ‘she’ has no regret over her now look.

Hear her: “I didn’t buy my looks from a surgeon’s table. I created my looks out of knowledge and understanding of my own body! Buy your coffins b*****s. You gonna be seeing more hotness from my end! Get ready to die or bow down. Ugly cows!” she once responded to her many critics.

-Culled from IdomaVoice.

I CAN GO N*UDE FOR A MOVIE DEPENDING ON THE AMOUNT - CORDELIA OF JENIFA'S DIARY

Paschaline Alex Okoli, a Nollywood actress who stars in the popular TV series, Jenifa's Diary as Cordelia, has revealed what can make her act n*de in a movie.

During an interview with Broadway TV, the Nollywood actress said she can go n*de for a movie depending on the amount and story-line of the movie.
She also talked about how she landed the role in jenifa's diary.

Sunday, 3 September 2017

BEAUTIFUL BRIDE SHOWS OFF HER BOOBS IN NEW STYLE OF WEDDING GOWN.. CHECK THIS OUT

The above photos which emerged online have been trending on social media platforms and trailed with mixed reactions and criticisms as many think the bride's dress is a little inappropriate to wear on your wedding day. 

Whiles some argued that children could be at the wedding and all that cleavage is too much for them to see, some others said male guests could become distracted, even the officiating priest/pastor.

The identity of the lady or where the wedding took place, were not ascertained by TORI News as at the time of filing this report.

See more photos below;



HOW I SAW JESUS WATCHING OVER MY UNBORN BABY IN MY WOMB.. WOMAN MAKES SHOCKING REVELATIONS

An American couple identified as Alicia Zeek and Zac Smith, are feeling divinely blessed after seeing Jesus looking over their unborn child in the womb.

The Parents were amazed when they saw the 'unmistakeable features' of Jesus Christ next to their baby girl during an ultrasound.

According to BBC, the couple said that Jesus was dressed in his traditional robes with a crown of thorns on his head. He was in the far left of the sonogram, facing the baby.

“When they gave it to us... Umm, to me, it’s Jesus. And it looks like Jesus,” Alicia told local station WPMT.

What made the revelation so important to them is that the couple’s two older kids both had medical issues and they were anxious about the new one.

The couple told Fox 43 that their first baby girl was born with two thumbs on one hand. Their baby boy was born with a cleft palate (a split in the palate of the mouth).

"The angel or God or Jesus, however you want to propose it, I look at it as my blessing," Zac was quoted as saying.

"When I seen it, it almost brought tears to my eyes. I was speechless, I just couldn't believe it."
A healthy Baby Briella was born on 23 August. Mum and baby are both doing well.

WOMAN CUTS OFF HER HUSBAND'S P*NIS FLUSHES IT DOWN THE TOILET.. YOU WONT BELIEVE WHY

According to a report by Metro UK, a wife has allegedly cut off her husband’s p*nis and flushed it down the loo.

The woman is said to have attacked the 50-year-old because he spent too much time playing golf.

She allegedly attacked him with a kitchen knife while he slept in Yeosu, South Korea.

Stunned neighbours told police the couple appeared to have a good relationship.

But the wife, 54 – referred to as Mrs Kim – reportedly confessed to officers that he ignored her.

She also claimed that he had been violent against her.

Kim said he never gave her money to live on and spent a lot of time out and playing golf.

A neighbour found the husband writhing in pain on the floor after hearing him groaning in his flat.

He is said to be in a stable condition in hospital.

Police said they would probe more about the motive for the alleged attack before issuing an arrest warrant, Jeju Weekly reported.

Local sources said police suspected the husband could have been attacked for cheating on Kim, but the had no evidence to back it up.

Thursday, 24 August 2017

IMPORTANT TIPS ON HOW TO MAKE YOUR GIRLFRIEND LOVE YOU MORE

What can make your girlfriend love you more? Here are some practical tips that will help you.

1. Listen to what she has to say. It might seem obvious to many, but some people still manage to miss this simple but crucial step. If you are having a conversation, really listen to her. Do not just pretend to listen and then make excuses as to why you did not hear her last sentence.

According to the old Russian saying, ‘women love with their ears’. However, women also appreciate being listened to. Even if she just has to vent about her annoying co-workers, pause your work and offer a sympathetic ear. We guarantee that it will not go unnoticed.

2. Compliment her. Women do love with their ears, so a well-timed compliment will do wonders for your romance. Do not focus only on appearance, although occasional mentions of how good her hair looks are important too.

Play to her strengths, compliment her on things she is most proud of. It can be a promotion, a successful meal, a win in a marathon, or anything she worked hard for. You can also try to reduce her personal insecurities by saying how much you love them and appreciate them for making her who she is.

3. Ask her advice. Almost any person loves being helpful and important. Your girlfriend will definitely appreciate it if you ask her help in resolving a difficult situation. This tip would work great if it is her area of expertise. However, it might be hard to think of what to ask the PhD of Quantum Physics. What is the meaning of life, maybe?

4. Be her support system. Every woman needs someone she can turn to when things do not go her way. In this situation, that person is you! If you see that she is upset about something, ask her about it. Nevertheless, do not press if she refuses to answer. Simply say that you are there when she needs you. Eventually, she will tell you, and you can figure it out together.

5. Do not be afraid of her tears. Many people feel very uncomfortable when they see open displays of intense emotions. But if you want to be the best partner you can be, set your feelings aside and offer your shoulder to cry on.

6. Leave the past in the past. Unless your girlfriend initiates the ‘ex talk’, do not ask her about her exes. You do not need to know who she was with before. You should only care about the relationship at hand. However, when she asks you about the people you used to date, do not compare them to her. Describe them as if you were describing one of your friends.

7. Have a good relationship with her family and friends. It does not mean that you have to be best friends with all of them. Be as nice as you can, even if your views on life are incompatible. If you absolutely hate all of them, try to limit your communication with them. Do not make your girlfriend choose between you and them. It is an unfair choice, and you will most likely loose.

8. Surprise her. This encompasses all of the cutesy romantic behaviour you can think of. Leave cute notes around the house, plan surprise dates, or show up at her workplace during lunch hour. However, make sure that she likes surprises beforehand. Do a ‘trial run’ in a safe environment or just ask her outright. Because nothing is worse than an unwanted surprise.

9. Treat her. This does not necessarily mean you need to spend ridiculous amounts of money just to please her. Make her favourite meal, take her to her favourite theatre, or massage her feet when she gets home. Little things like that will work better than any words. Although occasional big gestures like a luxurious romantic trip for two will be great for the both of you.

If you live together, do not think that she has to do all the housework. Divide the chores between you, and if she works more than you, offer to take over her responsibilities.

10. Give her space. You do not have to be together 24/7. Even though it is your partner we are talking about, you have no right to control her in any way. Let her have her moments of solitude, encourage her to hang out with her friends.

A good loving relationship should be built on trust. This means that you two can have your separate lives and still love each other immensely. Staying apart for a while will do you both some good. In those moments, try to calm your jealousy. Do not look for signs of cheating if they are not there.

11. Be yourself. This is the most important part many people forget about. If she is your girlfriend, it means that she already loves you. You do not have to jump out of your skin and demand the impossible. Just be the nicest version of yourself you can be. As long as you are a decent human being, she will love you with all you strengths and weaknesses.

These are all very generic tips. If you want to know what will definitely work for your girlfriend, why don’t you ask her? There is no definitive guide to how to make girls love you. Every woman is different, so do not be surprised if your typical wooing fails.

MY WIFE'S BACK SIDE DRIVES ME CRAZY EVERY TIME, MAN CONFESSES

According to his unnamed man, his wife of Arabian descent is so beautiful that he masturbates to her picture in the office during lunch breaks.

The love appears to be going sour due to his wife's local attitude linked to her stay in Ibadan as the man claims.

He has written a hilarious letter to a relationship blogger, Joro Olumofin as he seeks advice.

Read his letter below:


UNBELIEVABLE: THIS MAN BOUGHT A ROPE AND HELPED HIS OWN FRIEND TO KILL HERSELF WHILE RECORDING IT ON PHONE

An 18-year-old man identified as Tyerell Przybycien is accused of helping a girl commit suicide while he recorded it on his phone.

According to Metro UK, prosecutors say the young man bought rope and drove Jchandra Brown, 16, to a place where she could hang herself in Payson, Utah, on May 6.

He has been charged with murder.

Police searching the area found Przybycien crying on a nearby trail, reports deseretnews.com.

Utah County Sheriff’s Sgt. Josh Chaplin told the court how Przybycien asked if he wanted to hear ‘the whole story’.

He then explained how he had picked up his friend the previous night and taken her to the scene of her suicide.

Chaplin said: ‘Based on what he had told me, he had witnessed a traumatic event, and I was concerned. I wondered if we needed to get him help.’
The sergeant initially didn’t believe he was a suspect in the case.

He drove him back to the police department because he was concerned about his safety. While he was being interviewed, Chaplin got word from a detective that there was a video of the death on a phone near to where Brown’s body was found.

A note was discovered next to it that read:‘Watch the video, it’s on my phone.’
The court heard how the ten-minute video was being filmed by Przybycien. In it, he can allegedly be heard asking Brown to move. At one point he says: ‘Thumbs up if you’re OK.’
When she is no longer struggling, he adds:‘That’s when the brain stops getting any oxygen… I guess I’ll just leave this here now.’

PREGNANT FUNKE AKINDELE GETS 41ST BIRTHDAY SUPRISE FROM HER HUSBAND AND CREW MEMBERS

Nigerian actress, Funke Akindele who turned 41 today celebrated has her birthday in style.

The actress was given a surprise birthday celebration by her husband who brought her production team and celebrities to pay her a visit and present her with gifts. Denrele and other celebrities were present at the couple's home.

JJC Skillz wrote."We managed to surprise @funkejenifaakindele it was extremely hard but we did it.Thank you to all our family and friends time to party"  
Funke was elated and couldn't hide her happiness. The pregnant star blushed and thanked all those present.

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